This is a subjective Ranked version of Intriguing Connections: How To Have A Conversation?
This is a list of books on how to have conversations.
How To Think About The Conversation Partner(s):
- How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain by Lisa Feldman Barrett
- Curious: The Desire to Know and Why Your Future Depends on It by Ian Leslie
- The Theory of Moral Sentiments by Adam Smith
- Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
- 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan B. Peterson
What Prevents A Quality Conversations:
- Hot Buttons: How to Resolve Conflict and Cool Everyone Down by Sybil Evans, Sherry Suib Cohen
- Scarcity: Why Having Too Little Means So Much by Sendhil Mullainathan, Eldar Shafir
- Blind Spots: Why We Fail to Do What's Right and What to Do about It by Max H. Bazerman, Ann E. Tenbrunsel
- Think Like a Freak by Steven D. Levitt, and Stephen J. Dubner
- Fight Club Politics: How Partisanship Is Poisoning the U.S. House of Representatives by Juliet Eilperin
How To Have A Quality Conversations:
- Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It by Chris Voss
- Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini
- How We Learn: Why Brains Learn Better Than Any Machine ... for Now by Stanislas Dehaene
- The Socrates Express: In Search of Life Lessons from Dead Philosophers by Eric Weiner
- How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
The Need For Disagreement And Different Perspectives:
- Why Societies Need Dissent by Cass R. Sunstein
- In Defense of Troublemakers: The Power of Dissent in Life and Business by Charlan Jeanne Nemeth
- A Philosophy of Evil by Lars Svendsen
- Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know by Adam Grant
- On Liberty by John Stuart Mill
- The Wisdom of Crowds by James Surowiecki
Context Of Quality Conversations:
Group Dynamics:
- The Secret of Our Success: How Culture Is Driving Human Evolution, Domesticating Our Species, and Making Us Smarter by Joseph Henrich
- Political Tribes: Group Instinct and the Fate of Nations by Amy Chua
- Rule Makers, Rule Breakers: Tight and Loose Cultures and the Secret Signals that Direct Our Lives by Michele Gelfand
- Moral Tribes: Emotion, Reason, and the Gap Between Us and Them by Joshua D. Greene
- Inventing the Enemy by Umberto Eco